TGC has an excellent blogpost on Martin Luther’s marriage and the hard won lessons he learned in perseverence through its trials and joys.
“If Americans can be divorced for ‘incompatibility of temper’ I cannot conceive why they are not all divorced. I have known many happy marriages, but never a compatible one. The whole aim of marriage is to fight through and survive the instant when incompatibility becomes unquestionable. For a man and a woman, as such, are incompatible.” G.K. Chesterton